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Journeys Into the Unknown
Many journeys start out fun, but then become something we didn’t expect…even dark. But they often lead to unexpected light places we could not have found any other way.
Managing the Inner Critic
The Inner Critic We all live with some version of an Inner Critic. I’ve dubbed mine “Helga” because that name brings to my mind a tough prison guard, which Helga likes to think she is. (My apologies to anyone named Helga!) She likes to think she’s in...
Is Marriage a DIY Project?
Independence is a Worthy Goal “Do it myself!” is a familiar cry to the parents of any toddler. It’s the demand of a healthy child who is eager to learn. Gradually gaining independence is the goal that healthy parents want for their child.Independence is...
Your Upset…Fact or Fiction?
Many upsets are caused by a misinterpretation of a look, word, or behavior. Perception Checks prevent those upset
Distance vs. Connection: Which one Creates Relationship Jail?
Communication methods either produce emotional distance or deepen emotional connection. You get to choose the outcome by choosing which words you use.
Kindness? or Supporting Irresponsibility?
Learning where my responsibilities end and another person's begin has been a life-long curriculum for me. The learning began in my late-twenties when I hired a carpenter to build some cabinets in my sewing room. The first few days he was...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
I have a host of books, Relationship Rehab Show episodes, and courses to help you find the solutions you’re looking for, whether you desire to grow in your own skills, bond with a partner or heal family or stepfamily dynamics.
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